If your partner is wearing a cock ring, use it! Get in there, lick them, suck them, see if you can get them both in there or whatever you want, just don't ignore them. If you need to give your jaw a rest, taking a detour to the balls is a great way to keep the action hot while getting a bit of a rest before going in for a big finale. Get in there, cradle his balls, gently jostle them around while you're working the shaft. I can definitively say that if you aren't playing with your man's balls, you're giving a bad blowjob. The scrotum and testicles are extremely dense with nerves, which makes them super sensitive to physical sensation. 6. Go Balls Out - g et in there, cradle his balls, gently jostle them around while you're working the shaftĪ good blowjob is a whole lot more than just bobbing your mouth up and down on some guy's shaft until he blows, the least of which is making sure you give those balls a little love while you're down there. Not only does this give you the chance to check in with him and get a feel for where he's at, it also lets you turn up the heat for him by conveying how turned on you are. This doesn't mean you should intensely stare into your partner's eyes, which can be sexy at times, but that you should try to make occasional eye contact with your partner. Which brings me to my second point, eye contact is super-sexy if you're both really into what's going on. If he's not into it, one look in his eyes will tell the whole story. Some guys will moan and go through the motions when they are getting a sub-par BJ, but the face will never lie. You can't trust your ears to tell the whole story. You need those babies to see if he likes what you're doing as much as you think he does! This is a real shame because the eyes are an incredibly potent weapon in your oral arsenal.įirst of all, you need to have them open if you're going to properly read your partner's reactions. I've noticed that a lot of guys have the tendency to close their eyes when they are going down on someone. 7. Use Your Eyes - they are an incredibly potent weapon in your oral arsenal So, as a public service to all those guys out there who have the sneaking suspicion they might not exactly be making the grade in their oral exams, I'd like to offer up this quick cheat sheet to help you pass your next test with flying colors. The sad thing about bad blowies is that they are a perfectly preventable tragedy. There's nothing worse than thinking you're sitting down for a nice plate of filet mignon and getting a cold Happy Meal with soggy fries. May I offer disappointing blowjobs as exhibit B? Namely, all of the worst things in life also happen to be free.
There is an unfortunate flip side to this idea, however. I can't really think of a better way to spend my time than getting blown, cards on the table. If someone asked me to prove that some of the best things in life are free, I'd have to choose a really good blowjob as exhibit A.